How to save a family from start to finish
It would seem that most young couples marry out of great love. Time passes and discord begins in the family, misunderstanding and cooling sets in, which often leads to a painful divorce.
Why can’t people be happy in marriage, raise children, live for the joy of themselves and everyone?
Most likely they lack patience, love, and the desire to find a compromise. To help every couple there is a strong prayer that will protect them from troubles and provide an opportunity to solve any problem.
With a prayer for peace between loving spouses, they first of all turn to the Lord God. Our Creator will definitely hear sincere words flowing from the soul and will come to the rescue.
Protective words : Lord Heavenly Father! In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray to You for my family happiness. Grant us in our family love for each other. Grant to us that our love may strengthen and multiply. Teach me to love my spouse with all my heart, teach me to love him (her) as You and Your Son Jesus Christ loved me. Grant me to understand what I need to remove from my life and what I need to learn so that we can have a happy family.
Grant me wisdom in my behavior and in my words so that I never irritate or upset my spouse. Amen.
A prayer for the preservation and strengthening of the family should also be offered to Jesus Christ:
Lord Jesus Christ, our God, you gave a new commandment to your disciples, so that they love one another!
Accept this prayer for the remission of the sins of all of us, Your servants.
Renew the love that has dried up in us with Your Holy Spirit, so that, fulfilling Your commandments, we will take care not of our earthly goods, but of Your glory and the benefit of our neighbor.
For You are our Leader and Savior, and we give glory to You together with the Father and the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Prayer really helps to find happiness in the family; the main thing is to believe that our Lord, the Mother of God and the saints will hear you.
Ikos 3
Having care for his people, the blessed Peter and Fevronia, vigilantly labored for their good, inculcating piety, eradicating wickedness and pacifying enmity. Likewise, the Lord, seeing such feats of yours, bless the land of Murom with fruitfulness and give deep peace to your reign, challenging your people to sing gratefully to you:
We advise you to study the Icon of the Mother of God “Seeking the Lost”
Rejoice, saints of God, as partakers of the lives of the great saints.
Rejoice, good rulers, people of Murom who have guided you to salvation.
Rejoice, guardians of Christian piety.
Rejoice, eradicators of disorder, strife and all wickedness.
Rejoice, Christian spouses, to the pious life of a mentor.
Rejoice, conjugal chastity and continence are a most excellent image.
Rejoice, guardians of the righteous judgment.
Rejoice, zealots of non-profits and selflessness.
Rejoice, holy kings Constantine and Helen, acquirers of virtues.
Rejoice, Equal-to-the-Apostles Prince Vladimir and Blessed Princess Olga are worthy successors.
Rejoice, most honorable and good combination of two, unwaveringly shining with rays of miracles.
Rejoice, blessed luminary of your fatherland.
Rejoice, holy and glorious wonderworkers Peter and Fevronia.
Appeal to Peter and Fevronia
Most often, they pray to Saints Peter and Fevronia for well-being and maintaining harmony in a loving couple.
Soon, namely July 8, the day of remembrance of Saints Peter and Fevronia is coming. On this day, every sincere prayer coming from the heart will be heard by these saints. The church celebrates their memory day again: September 19, the day of the transfer of the relics.
Why are Peter and Fevronya considered patrons of family and marriage? With their whole lives they proved how strong their love was despite the fact that they were from different classes. In those days, such a marriage was a great “crime” against society.
They lived in Murom in the 18th century. Peter was from a princely family, and Fevronia was a commoner. Nobody recognized their unequal marriage. The couple had to experience a lot of persecution, but they did not betray their love and, as legend says, they died on the same day.
The image of the saints gives people hope of finding the same strong love and devotion to each other. It makes you understand how important fidelity, openness, and love are in family relationships.
For many families, prayer in front of the icon of the saints helped save a marriage already on the way to a final break. If you feel coldness and misunderstanding in your family, offer prayer three times a day in front of the image of this righteous couple and you will soon see how respect, love, trust, and therefore happiness, will begin to return to the house.
The icon can be given to newlyweds for a wedding, so that they can see a happy family, and then they themselves pray in front of it for the well-being of their young family.
If the spouses have already lived for many years, but discord has begun in the family, then the icon must be placed in the bedroom. Turn to the saints in prayer, and you won’t even notice how your relationship will improve, conflicts and misunderstandings will disappear.
“I, servant of God (proper name), turn to you, Holy, pious spouses who lived a righteous life, Peter and Fevronya. You were marked by God for your loyalty to each other and your souls found peace in the Kingdom of Heaven. From there you pray for everyone who suffers and resorts to your help. Hear my sincere prayer. Take away sorrows and misfortunes from my family, remove conflicts, discord and squabbles, save my family, blessed by the Lord. You have lived your life together in peace and harmony, so send me and my husband family happiness. So that we live in harmony and serve with deep spiritual faith in the Lord our God. Grant us the strength to resist the temptations of the devil and live according to the commandments of God. Give me wisdom to follow all the instructions of the Lover of Mankind and our Savior Jesus Christ and after death rest my soul in His Kingdom of Heaven. I trust in your mercy, Saints Peter and Fevronya. I believe that you will help replace the sorrow in my soul with joy. Amen".
If the husband began to look to the side, then this prayer is also read to admonish the husband. Buy an icon, place it in your bedroom at the head of your head, then read it three times a day for 40 days.
Troparion, tone 81
Audio:
As you were at the root of piety, / having lived well in piety, blessed Peter, / so with your wife, the wise Fevronia, / in the world, pleasing God, and the venerable You have become worthy of your life./ Pray to the Lord with him,/ to preserve your fatherland without harm, // we will always honor you.
Translation: Just as you, blessed Peter, were a precious branch from a pious root, having lived wonderfully in piety, so with your wife, the wise Fevronia, you pleased God in the world, and were honored with the life of the venerables. With them, pray to the Lord to preserve your Fatherland without harm, so that we may continually honor you.
What to do if a husband leaves his wife
Many husbands, unable to withstand the test of everyday life, leave the family. What to do? If your husband is still dear to you, then prayer words will help bring him back. A prayer for the return of the husband is said in the temple. You can read at home as often as possible.
Prayer to the Mother of God
Light the candle, then turn to the Blessed Virgin Mary:
“Have mercy, Most Holy Theotokos, on my family, intercede for us sinners. Show your mercy to us, cover our family nest with your protective cover. Save our sinful souls: the servant of God (name of the spouse) and the servant of God (name of the spouse). Help, Most Holy Theotokos, to preserve our love and continue to live in harmony and agreement. Give us strength and patience to get through dark times and not lose trust in each other. Just as a river flows and never ends, so may our lives continue in harmony and harmony forever and ever. I believe in your mercy, Most Holy Theotokos, and I glorify your holy deeds. Amen".
Never lose hope for reconciliation and return of happiness. Visit the temple, light candles for your health and the health of your husband or wife.
For help from Matrona
To save your family, turn to Matronushka for help. The saint helped everyone during her lifetime, and she helps after death. Matrona of Moscow is approached in all cases when love has left the home, irritability has appeared in relationships, and there have been a lot of quarrels and conflicts.
Prayer request:
“Hear me, servant of God (proper name), Blessed Elder, Holy Matrona of Moscow. You lived a righteous life and helped many people. Help me improve my family life. God is sending me punishment for my sins. But I sincerely repent of them, for my known and unknown sins were committed due to my lack of understanding. I ask the Lord to forgive my sins and I ask you, Holy Matronushka, to help me. Help me and tell me how to improve my material well-being without compromising my spiritual life. Push me to the true path and give me strength to resist devilish temptations. Let me earn money through honest work and do not let despair fill my soul. I believe in your goodness and glorify your deeds. Amen".
Who to pray for peace in the family
Relationships in a married couple cannot be sublime and exciting all the time. From time to time a cooling occurs, then for those who love it it goes away. As they say: love also needs rest. But if you are tired of scandals and constant quarrels out of the blue, then turn to the saints.
If the husband leaves the family, then also read the prayer appeal to Gury, Samon and Aviv for the preservation of the family. Your words will definitely be heard:
“Oh, glory to the martyr Guria, Samona and Aviva! To you, as a quick helper and a warm prayer book, we resort to weakness and unworthiness, fervently pleading: do not despise us, who have fallen into many iniquities and are sinning all the days and hours; guide the erring on the right path, heal the suffering and mourning; keep us in a blameless and chaste life; and as in ancient times, so now remain the patrons of marriages, in love and like-mindedness this affirms and delivers from all evil and calamity. Protect, O the great power of the confessor, all Orthodox Christians from misfortunes, evil people and the machinations of demons; Protect me from unexpected death, begging the All-Good Lord, that He may add great and rich mercy to us, His humble servant. We are not worthy to call on the magnificent name of our Creator with unclean lips, unless you, holy martyrs, intercede for us; For this reason we resort to you and ask for your intercession before the Lord. Also deliver us from famine, flood, fire, sword, invasion of foreigners, internecine warfare, deadly plagues and every soul-destroying situation. To her, passion-bearers of Christ, through your prayers arrange for us all that is good and useful, so that a pious life of a temporary life has passed and a death without shame has been achieved, we will be worthy of your warm intercession with all the saints at the right hand of the Just God of the Judge, and Him to unceasingly glorify with the Father and the Holy Spirit forever and ever. Amen."
Prayers to bring your loved one back
The destruction of a family is a terrible tragedy, and usually both spouses are to blame. They were not patient enough, attentive, kind, or condescending to each other.
The Internet is replete with various proposals to return a loved one, to bind a man or woman by force, to make sure that the husband returns to the family. Moreover, most of these advertisements truthfully and sincerely reveal their faces. They are called conspiracies, love spells, incantations, spells - a person waiting for God's help will not resort to these demonic methods.
But there is another way to return your loved one, which is extremely actively replicated on the Internet. This is the so-called prayer for the return of a loved one. Everyone knows that black magic is very dangerous. Some people even managed to convey information about the convention of dividing magic into white and black.
But the proposal to read a prayer for the return of a loved one is something completely different!
“This is a prayer, a holy prayer, and a convenient one - for the return of a loved one!” - thinks an inexperienced, unchurched person, and happily reads texts that have nothing to do with God, performs all the prescribed rituals in order to return a loved one.
You can pray for any good undertaking - it doesn’t matter which saint you turn to.
With questions of love, it is usually customary to pray to Saints Peter and Fevronia of Murom, who during their lifetime gained fame as a model of Christian love and devotion.
But this is not a rule that must be followed; people received a lot of mercy in matters of the heart from Ksenia of Petersburg, who became a holy fool for Christ’s sake just after the tragic death of her beloved husband.
“O saints of God, blessed Prince Peter and Princess Fevronia, we come running to you and pray to you with strong hope: offer up your holy prayers for us sinners (names) to the Lord God and ask from His goodness all that is beneficial to our souls and bodies: right faith, good hope, unfeigned love, unshakable piety, success in good deeds. Petition us from the Heavenly King for a prosperous life and a good Christian death. Hey, holy wonderworkers! Do not despise our prayers, but awaken in your dreams to intercede with the Lord, and with your help make us worthy to receive eternal salvation and inherit the Kingdom of Heaven, so that we glorify the ineffable love for mankind of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, in the Trinity we worship God forever and ever.”
About saving family relationships
Believers have always valued the sacred bonds of true marriage. However, along the path of life, difficulties arise that cause conflicts. Relatives turn away from each other, not knowing how to return to their previous relationship.
Prayer to Saint Nicholas
A protective prayer to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker can perform a real miracle. God's servant Nikolai will definitely help preserve love in a couple. Offer words of prayer to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker. A sincere request for help gives a person the opportunity to receive the favor of the Higher Powers.
The saint sees how a believer strives for moral purity, loves his family, children, and environment. Perform prayer work for forty days and St. Nicholas the Wonderworker will help get rid of misunderstandings in the family.
When pronouncing words, look at the fire of the candle, for fire is considered a conductor of your thoughts to the saints.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father! In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray to You for my family happiness. Grant us in our family love for each other. Grant to us that our love may strengthen and multiply. Teach me to love my spouse with all my heart, teach me to love him (her) as You and Your Son Jesus Christ loved me. Grant me to understand what I need to remove from my life and what I need to learn so that we can have a happy family. Grant me wisdom in my behavior and in my words so that I never irritate or upset my spouse. Amen.
If you have a civil marriage, then think about how to change the situation, because civil marriage is considered a sin.
Family Saint
They pray to Trimifuntsky Spyridon for all family needs. Believers tell him about everything that worries them. Saint Spyridon is truly endowed with special grace, which makes him a dear saint to everyone who resorts to him.
If the family is in need, say the words three times in front of the burning candle:
Trimifuntsky Spyridon, God's Pleasant. I pray to you for family well-being, so that we come to God in repentance. Let faith in Christ not weaken, let not the soul become cold from sins. Thy will be done. Amen.
The following prayer will be protection from evil:
Spyridon of Trimifuntsky, Defender and Savior. On my knees I pray to forgive sins and not allow evil into family life. Let children grow up in true Orthodoxy, let parents live longer. Let it be so. Amen.
In many families, there is a different situation when a wife leaves and the husband does not know how to get his wife back. Reading the same prayer will help correct the situation.
If you are envied, then prayer work will also save you from the evil eye.
This text must be memorized:
Lord Jesus, in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, hear my prayer, reunite our hearts with my wife, forgive my sins.
Instill in her heart forgiveness towards me for not respecting me.
Give her a sign that I love you. I truly repent of my behavior.
Give me one more chance to live for her and take care of her. Give your love.
Lord, if you sent me a wife, do not leave me without her. Resurrect the former love between us.
Deliver our family and monastery from evil spells and witchcraft (if any).
Lord, bring my beloved wife back to our house, and give us a long and righteous life together. Amen
