Quarrels often occur between mother and son when he slams the door and leaves the house. It happens that relationships deteriorate after his marriage, under the influence of his new wife. Any mother values her relationships with her children and strives to improve them by any means necessary. How to return a son to his mother - a conspiracy will help with this, it will make him remember the person closest and dearest to him - his mother.
How to return a son to his mother - a conspiracy will help
Conspiracies to obedience children
One day, on the way from church, an elderly parishioner approached me. Noticing that my son was not behaving in the best way, she gave some advice. It turns out that for a long time our ancestors used powerful rituals on a child so that he would obey and love his parents. Such words alarmed me, since I have a negative attitude towards magic. But from her story I realized that there was nothing scary about it. Since basically ceremonies of this kind are based on wishing all the best to your child.
It is worth noting that scientists do not deny the influence of conspiracies on children’s obedience. To perform the ceremony you may need:
- "Living" or holy water.
- Exact writing of the words of the spell or prayer on a piece of paper.
When a teenage son completely escapes parental control, begins to appear in unfavorable companies, and treats his parents and teachers with disrespect, there is reason to think. To prevent this situation from getting worse, you can use an obedience spell.
Much depends on correct pronunciation. You can write down the text on paper in advance. Then say it while holding the child’s thing in your hands. Then return it to your son.
Unfortunately, even in very favorable families, where parents devote maximum time to children, naughty children grow up. Also, a child often becomes problematic if there are quarrels, hysterics and scandals in the house.
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Often parents are inclined to plot obedience. After all, every person wants to raise their child to be a good and decent person to be proud of.
When psychological and pedagogical techniques do not work in raising children, parents have no choice but to turn to magic. This approach is considered desperate. In some situations, a qualified psychologist can help. But unfortunately, this does not always happen. And even the most experienced specialist is sometimes unable to understand the reasons for the negative behavior of a child, much less a teenager.
Separate from the bad guy and drive him away forever
If a daughter is dating a dubious young man, this should alert the mother before the situation goes too far. At the energy level, the relationship before entering into intimacy is not reflected in anything, but if contact has already occurred, a thread appears between the couple that connects them along the sexual chakra. You can break it with the ritual with candles, which was described earlier, or by reading the following words:
This conspiracy and the ritual with candles itself is quite strong, so it is not worth using it for every daughter’s chosen one, and besides, such behavior will not please higher powers. The main thing is to use it in exceptional cases.
For a daughter to love and obey her mother, it is important to talk to her, to understand that she is also a person who lives her own life and must make her own mistakes. A mother should become a faithful friend and ally of her daughter, whose union will not be destroyed by dubious companies and guys. And spells and prayers will always help you bring happiness back home.
Rules for reading the plot
Obedience conspiracies, like all other magical rituals, have their own rules. Without following them, it is impossible to achieve results. Therefore, before choosing a suitable ritual, you need to learn a few rules:
- The best time to read conspiracies is morning or evening.
- To carry out the ritual, you need to accurately imagine the desired result.
- The process needs to be taken seriously.
- Learn the words of the spell by heart before you begin the ritual. If the text is long, copy it onto a blank sheet of paper with your own hands and read from there.
- Regardless of the result, do not tell strangers about the ritual.
- Before reading the plot, turn off all electrical appliances and telephones in the room. Nothing should distract from the process.
Preparation
In order for the ritual to work quickly and correctly, a person should prepare. To do this you need to follow some rules.
Mothers are recommended:
- A week before the ritual, cleanse the soul. This means stopping being irritated, thinking about bad things and getting into conflicts.
- Minimize trips to public places. You should limit yourself only to work, home and store.
- Before casting the spell, take a shower, put on clean clothes, comb and loosen your hair.
- You need to read the text without hesitation, without being distracted by anything. It is advisable to learn the words rather than read from paper.
- If the number of repetitions is not indicated, then the plot is read at least 3 times.
- In order for magical energy to reach the recipient faster, you should open a window or window.
- The words of the spell are read in a whisper and in complete solitude. There should be no strangers or animals around.
- The ritual should not be performed on critical days or when feeling unwell.
Conspiracies are a good way to improve relationships. However, in addition to magic, mothers should listen to the wishes of their children and put pride into the background.
Excitement
Young children tend to cry and throw tantrums. However, if this negatively affects the baby’s health and sleep, then it’s worth considering. Our ancestors used spells or performed rituals. Having put the baby to bed, they read a text above his crib asking the Lord that the child’s whims would go away and he could sleep peacefully without disturbing his parents:
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Let sleep envelop the baby, and let his whims disappear from him. I ask that the child be able to sleep normally and not disturb his parents. Amen.
Overprotection
However, excessive expression of love also has a bad effect on the relationship with the child.
If a mother tied his shoelaces almost until her son came of age, and then immediately ran to solve his problems, he definitely won’t say thank you. There is no feeling of gratitude or love for the mother in such children.
Some children, growing up, remain mother's daughters and sons, and some try to escape from under her wing at the first opportunity. In the first case, even an adult child takes all the efforts of the parent for granted, and her presence in his life is almost unnoticed; in the second, he tries with all his might to achieve independence and, barely sensing it, tries to minimize his communication with his mother. There is no love or trusting relationship in either the first or second case.
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To prevent this from happening, every mother needs to remember the personal boundaries of the child at any age and be able to respect them. If maternal overprotection has already caused a chill in the relationship, accept the fact that your child is an independent person (believe it or not, even at 10 years old, a daughter or son is an adult, capable of making decisions and solving problems without a mother).
Obedient child
Since ancient times, prayers have been used to improve children's obedience. There were a huge number of conspiracies. The most common one was that when feeding a child, it is necessary to say a phrase that you will protect, protect and become a true friend for your child all your life:
I feed the baby with my own hands. All my life I will now protect my child, God’s servant (name), from adversity and curses. I will become the child’s most faithful protector and friend. I ask that he seek help from me, and not from strangers.
If the baby was frightened by nightmares, then the parents performed the following ritual:
- They collected water from a well or river. The main thing is not to use tap water.
- They entered the room while the child was sleeping.
- Then they passed their hand through the air and said that they gave birth to their child for happiness. We wished the baby to be healthy and sleep well at night. And they asked for time for themselves so they could work during the day.
Bring back a daughter's love for her mother
If the relationship with the mother is not going well, if the daughter ignores the mother’s attempts to make peace and come to an agreement, if family meetings are always accompanied by conflicts, then the following conspiracy helps:
The conspiracy does not require any attributes or conditions. The mother should simply say the words with deep and sincere emotions, standing in her daughter's room, or looking at the door if the room is locked.
If you believe those who performed the ritual, results can be expected within a day. If a daughter lives with her parents, then she will repent of her callousness and indifference, ask for forgiveness, and confess her love and respect. If a girl lives separately, then she will come to visit or call to normalize the relationship.
A very good ritual to remove hatred from a daughter’s heart is performed using honey. They do the following:
- A small amount of the product is poured onto the table. Place a piece of bread on top.
- Place a glass of water nearby. A pinch of salt is dissolved in it.
- Having put the cross on themselves three times, they say in a firm and even voice, without hesitating:
- Having uttered the words of the conspiracy, they once again put a cross on themselves. Then they say:
- The charmed bread and honey are given to domestic animals. Water is poured under any female tree.
Son doesn't listen
It is believed that bad behavior by a young person may well be the norm. Often teenagers get involved with bad companies. As a result, falling under the influence of others, they can “chop wood.” Attempts by parents to return their child to the right path are not always successful. And then they can decide on the ritual.
The ceremony takes place while the child is in the house. The parent takes one of his son's things and asks God for help. Usually the appeal contains a request that the son obey, avoid bad company, his conscience is cleared and peace returns to the house:
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I wish my child to begin to obey me again. Let him not seek help from strangers. Please help me so that my son can study well. Let the feeling of hatred that is in his soul go away forever. Let the servant of God (name of the son) honor his ancestors so that they do not waste their strength. I ask you to endow our home with harmony so that it is filled with peace. Let the conscience that disappeared from your son return again. So that he respects his parents and never contradicts them again. Amen.
It is important to understand that the text must be correctly composed. Therefore, if you are not sure of the words, then it is better to write them on paper in advance. As soon as the ceremony is completed, the item must be returned to the child for further use.
However, it is important to remember that you have a responsibility to love your children for who they are. After all, they bring into life not only grief, but also joy.
Mother treats me badly
Many mothers who complain about the lack of love of their child sometimes do not themselves notice how they treat him.
Some do nothing but put psychological and physical pressure on the child, expecting sincere and deep love in return. Sometimes this happens unconsciously: a woman simply remembers how her mother behaved and tries to repeat that parenting model with her child.
Surely you know at least one family in which the mother said with complete confidence in her words: “It’s okay, they beat me with a belt - after all, she grew up normal. And nothing will happen to this." The child never takes such punishments for granted and normal. In his head, the mother is an aggressor who cannot be loved, but can be feared. You cannot save love through fear.
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The child may or may not be aware of the pressure. But he closes himself off from his mother and sometimes even gets offended by her. As a result, their spiritual connection is simply broken. There can be no talk of any love or trust.
If the mother does not realize her guilt in the current situation, it is impossible to correct it. You can return the love of a child only by reconsidering your attitude towards everything that is happening; old stereotypes that have been living in your head for years need to be broken. And talk to the child. Softly and correctly.
Annoyed daughter
During adolescence, girls begin to produce hormones. They begin to have a hard time accepting psychological problems. As a result, quarrels with parents and an irresistible desire to isolate themselves and not see anyone arise.
Mothers are very sensitive to such changes in their child’s behavior. And if the situation escalates due to an affair with a suspicious adult guy, then the parents may decide to take a serious step.
In ancient times, mothers preferred the ritual and asked the Lord for their daughter’s obedience, happiness and protection for her from everything bad.
Just as in the temple of God believers bow, so let the servant of God (daughter’s name) submit to me. He honors and obeys, he submits and does not contradict, does not snap, does not make reservations, does not contradict. Let it be as I have spoken. Amen.
It was believed that such ceremonies do not carry any negativity for the child.
Indifference
Children do not forgive indifference. A mother who does not devote time to her child, is not at all interested in him and his achievements, very rarely remains loved. So the desire of many mothers (especially single mothers) to earn a lot of money for a good life for their child is not the best thing that can happen.
Putting all of herself into work, a woman forgets to give her child the most important thing - her attention. He feels that he is useless to his mother, which is why he stops loving her. Many children, as they get older, having lived through life, begin to understand why their mother “didn’t love” them and the situation changes. But this doesn't always happen.
This reason for a cold attitude towards the mother can only be prevented - just do not forget about the child and pay attention to him. Do not buy the most expensive toys, but spend time with him and talk about him and his hobbies.
Some mothers make the situation even worse. They begin to reproach the child for ingratitude: “I spent my whole life on you, I gave up everything, and you...”. This is not how you get a child's love.
Requests for help Write your story I am 68 years old. I had three children. Twin girls and a son whom I gave birth to at the age of 37. In 1993. My daughter died, it’s very difficult for me to come to terms with this terrible grief, but life goes on. The second daughter has been living in Germany for 20 years, and I live with my son. Two years ago, my granddaughter/daughter of my deceased daughter died, and my great-grandson remains with me. He turned 6 years old yesterday. I have a problem with my son. Whatever I do causes him to have a violent negative reaction and he insults me and mimics me. I am a disabled person of group 2, I can’t walk very well and I’ve gained a lot of weight, but I work, do translations and tutoring. The son is a lawyer by profession, does not smoke, does not drink, and recently started living with a girl. I’m very happy about this, because I asked God about this all the time. The girl is good and I also try to be on the level. But my son treats me with great disrespect. Everything about me irritates him and it doesn’t cost him anything to insult me with obscenities, but my great-grandson hears all this and says don’t cry grandma, when I grow up I will protect you. I understand I have to live, but all sorts of thoughts come into my head. I am needed only to use my money, and I don’t feel sorry for anything, but I’m also a human being and I want at least some kind of support. I would really like to chat and get some advice from those who have already encountered such a problem.....
Olga Leonidovna, age: 68 / 08/29/2015
Responses:
Dear Olga Leonidovna, I want to share my bitter experience of relations with my adult son. Of course, I don’t pretend that my advice is correct. You are reaping the fruits of your own mistakes in parenting. You cannot go back in time and fix everything. All you can do in this situation is change yourself. Accept the role that is assigned to you. Accept your son with such flaws and accept that the son drawn by your imagination does not exist! After this, a miracle can happen. The world will begin to change for the better. Let it not be by leaps and bounds, but a little at a time. If you wish your son well, if you want to help him, there is no other way. And if you simply stop communicating with him, your role will go to another person. And you will be slowly destroyed by resentment.
Nick, age: 42 / 08/30/2015
Hello! Perhaps your son should separate and live separately. You are such a great person for raising a great-grandson boy, I hope over the years he will become your support and support. Take care of yourself! God bless you!
Irina, age: 27 / 08/30/2015
Hello, I really sympathize with you. I understand that your son is already an adult. Maybe offer him to live separately? If he is so annoyed by communication with you. This would probably be the best option. A great-grandson is your great consolation, small children are so responsive. Ask God for strength to help you, probably no one else has. Sorry for not giving any sensible advice, I just wanted to express my sympathy, because I myself faced such problems.
Anna, age: 49 / 08/30/2015
Calm down, don't worry so much. Your family needs you, so you shouldn't commit suicide. Your son behaves unworthily. You need strength to raise your great-grandson, he loves and appreciates you. They need you at work. I hope that your worries will decrease.
Kolya, age: 31 / 08/30/2015
Dear Olga Leonidovna, look at this situation from a different point of view: from the point of view of your son’s mental health. Don’t be alarmed, there is nothing reprehensible in my phrase. You probably remember that once, maybe a long time ago, your son was not so unbalanced in relation to you, capricious, arrogant and irritable? Do you remember? Where does that come from? I see two options for the development of events. Once he committed the wrong thing (for example, he went to study or work in the wrong place), which entailed a whole series of internal psychological problems that were unpleasant for him. And these problems turn out to be unsolvable for him, except for how to live with and suffer from them. So he suffers, not understanding how to cut this Gordian knot in order to feel like a normal happy person, like he once did before. He resolves his internal conflict at the expense of the most patient (perhaps kind and meek) person. This - you. To the significant people around him, he cannot show his psychological inconsistency. There he is polite and correct. If you find his internal conflict and help him resolve it, you will make him happy and calm and ensure a calmer life for yourself. In general, this is work a psychologist-psychotherapist, if I'm not mistaken. It may not be up to you. The second option is that the biochemistry of the brain is disturbed and, as a result, such irritability, intolerance, for now towards loved ones and patient ones, and then it can spread to strangers in transport, to on the street, on those who cannot fight back. This is a mental disorder that is treated by psychiatrists. There can be many reasons for such disorders in the biochemistry of the brain. Everything can be treated. Do not hesitate, contact doctors, psychologists and psychotherapists. They will definitely help you deal with this problem .Success and health to you.
Lyudmila, age: 65 / 08/30/2015
I was so touched by your story! how much have you had to endure... to survive so many losses(((I don’t know why your son treats you like that... maybe he really needs to live separately? Or you and your great-grandson - separately from them... I wish you health and your great-grandson , and to your daughter, and to your son! may the Lord give him wisdom and love... and to you... peace and joy!! under no circumstances leave your great-grandson!!! hang in there, Dear Woman! The Lord is with you!
Marina, age: 38 / 08/30/2015
in fact, what I saw from my mother and those around her is that strong, active, powerful women overprotect their sons in childhood and adolescence, and this manifests itself in different ways. Someone controls every step, every call, hates all his son’s girlfriends. Someone says, let it be any, but in front of my eyes, while consciously and unconsciously putting pressure on the young family, still showing who is the true boss here. Finally, let your son go on a solo voyage, where he will be the master, and not you. There is no need for them to use your resources, leave them for yourself and your great-grandson, and let the young people live on their own, on their own resources, it’s about time! It’s better to save it for a sanatorium or to go to the sea with a boy! many people, when actually born, remain in the psycho-emotional plane - in the mother’s umbilical cord. So, please, the parents of their son, now as a mature man who is responsible for himself and the family he created. For your earnings, your decisions. If he allows disrespect, then he should leave and be the master. Whatever he can. But without you.
Alina, age: 30 / 08/31/2015
Olga Leonidovna, how hard it is for you. I haven’t encountered exactly this problem due to my age; I’m younger than you. But I observed similar situations in some families. Poor attitude of grown sons towards their mothers. And it happened like this: the mother gives everything, sacrifices everything for the sake of her son, and he behaves ungratefully, is rude, rude, offends and even beats. But the mother endures everything. Is it necessary to bring the situation to this? This is probably a question of ingratitude. And it seems to me that the person must be stopped. We cannot leave the situation as it is. This is harmful for both you and your son. Because it could be worse next. Can't you leave? You have fulfilled your maternal duty, raised him, and you are not obliged to live together. If he doesn’t like living with you so much, let him live separately. He builds his life as he sees fit. And you won't bother him. And, of course, a small child sees everything, and this is not useful for him. Because now he says this, and then he may simply lose respect for you, because they learn bad things faster than good things. Is it possible to talk to your daughter, maybe she can help you somehow? Maybe you could move in with her, or otherwise resolve this issue with her help?
Olya, age: 42 / 08/31/2015
Thanks everyone. My son rented an apartment for 2 years while working in Moscow. But now the company has collapsed and he decided to work from home through. Provides legal services and representation in courts. He does not want to work in Moscow or rent an apartment there. Moreover, he began to live with the girl and persuaded her to quit and work just like him. The girl is golden, but she is still young and looks into his mouth and listens to him unconditionally. But I can’t live with my daughter in Germany. It is in this country that only legal stay is required; neither a sick mother nor any other possibility can obtain permission for me to stay in Germany for more than 90 days a year. But I made a decision for myself - to stop giving money. I have a great-grandson, and his development is very, very expensive. Because of my legs, I can’t take him to clubs and go to Moscow to the circus, zoo, etc. But this doesn’t mean that he doesn’t go anywhere. The baby goes everywhere, but I have to pay the nanny for everything. And it’s worth it that's pretty decent money. But now the issue is being resolved regarding my bariplasty surgery / this is suturing the stomach / and here I also need money and it’s a shame that my son does not provide any moral participation. Of course, it’s all my fault, but you can’t turn back time. According to the horoscope, my son is Ox, Aries, and he has all the negativity inherent in this sign in full. He is infuriated by my condition, that I can barely walk, he imitates me, my fatness greatly irritates him. There is nowhere to go and I will have to drink this cup. When I met such students, I was horrified and could never have thought that I would also have to experience all this myself.
Olga Leonidovna, age: 68 / 08/31/2015
Thank you. Of course, it’s only me who is to blame and it’s clear that I can’t go back. I continue to pretend that I did not notice his insults and humiliation of me - there is simply no other way out. He liked living at my expense. But that’s enough, I won’t support him anymore, he’s already 30 and he has a specialty. He rented an apartment when he worked. Now the company has collapsed and everyone has been laid off, but in Moscow you can find work, although now salaries have been greatly reduced, but anyway, the lawyer will receive 50,000 rubles. But to do this, you need to get up early every day and travel by train for an hour and a half to Moscow and back the same amount. He even persuaded his little girl to work at home on the computer. And he just can’t see that it’s time to grow up and support himself. And he always blames me for not having enough money, but this or that friend of mine had normal parents and gave him an apartment and bought a car, but you Who? And he imitates how I walk. I move with great difficulty, my legs hurt, I have a group 2 disability. And I still need to get my great-grandson back on his feet.
Olga Leonidovna, age: 68 / 08/31/2015
Dear Olga Leonidovna, I sympathize with you, no mother deserves such a boorish attitude. It’s time to let your son go on his own, don’t give him any money... it’s simply amazing how step by step you can allow such rudeness towards yourself. With your love and care you put him on your neck, it seems to me that you need to decisively set the record straight, voice that he is an adult and at this age people already take care of their children and help their parents. It’s a shame to take money at the age of 30 from a woman, let alone from your mother. Do not let yourself be offended under any circumstances. Hugs to you and hope you make a difference.
Anna, age: 34 / 08/31/2015
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Mother makes me feel ashamed
Children are embarrassed by parents leading an antisocial lifestyle. This is a fact, but sons and daughters very rarely admit it. If a child is seriously ashamed of his mother, he will never love her. Moreover, love in this case fades away gradually, parallel to the growing understanding that his mother is a person who is not accepted by society.
The only thing that can be achieved in this situation is the pity of your daughter or son. The situation can only be corrected by giving up bad habits and reviewing your behavior in society. But is everyone ready to do this voluntarily?
