7 texts of prayers in Russian to forgive those who offend and hate us


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During Great Lent, the prayer of Ephraim the Syrian is read every day except Saturday and Sunday. It is considered a Lenten symbol and stands out very much among other chants and hymns.

Troparion, tone 41

Audio:

You have prayed for those who have been crucified, O lusty Lord, / and commanded Your servants to pray for them at once, / to forgive those who hate and offend us, / and from all evil and wickedness to brotherly love and virtue. give life, / we humbly offer you a prayer, / let us glorify you in unanimity You, // the One Lover of Mankind.

Translation: For those who crucified You, the Lord, who loves the souls of men, prayed, and commanded Your servants to pray for their enemies, forgive those who hate and offend us, and direct our lives from all evil and cunning to brotherly loving and virtuous ones, we humbly offer a prayer to You, and in unanimity we glorify You , One Lover of Humanity.

Prayers for different occasions

“Heal me, O Lord, and I will be healed” (Jer. 17:14). One, wise and merciful Physician, I beg Your goodness, heal the ulcers of my soul and enlighten the eyes of my mind, so that I can understand Your constant dispensation for me! And since my heart and my mind have become fools (have gone mad), then may Thy grace, this true salt, correct them. What will I tell you, Forerunner, who searches hearts and wombs? You alone know that, like the waterless land, my soul thirsts for You, and my heart longs for You. And Your grace has always satisfied the one who loves You. Therefore, as You have always listened to me, so now do not despise my prayer. For my mind, like a captive, seeks You, the only true Savior. Therefore, send Your grace to come to my aid soon, and it will satisfy my hunger, quench my thirst. For I lust after you insatiably, Lord. And who can be satisfied with You if he truly loves You and thirsts for the light of Your truth? Fulfill my requests, O Giver of light, and grant me, through my prayer, pour out into my heart a single drop of Thy grace: may the flame of Thy love kindle in my heart, like fire in a forest, and may it consume (devour) evil thoughts like thorns and thistles. Give me richly and without measure, like God to man, grant me like the King of kings, multiply like a good father. If I, as a wicked person, have rejected and continue to reject Your gifts, You, as the one who filled the waterpots with Your blessing, quench my thirst with Your grace and, as the one who fed five thousand, feed me, the hungry one, with Your grace, O Lord. Grant, O Lover of Mankind, the request of Thy servant who beseeches Thee. For behold, the air brightens, and the birds change their voices from the glory of Thy great Wisdom. So the whole earth puts on a robe of various colors, woven without human hands, rejoices and celebrates a double holiday - a holiday for the sake of its firstborn son Adam, because he was called to life, and a holiday for the sake of its Master. So the sea is filled with Your grace and enriches those who sail on it. Your grace has granted me the boldness to speak before You, and the desire that I have within myself compels me to go to You. The serpent, the instrument of the murderer from time immemorial, coming at this time, opens his mouth; How much more will Your servant, who desires You, open his mouth to the glory and praise of Your grace. You, who have accepted and praised the two mites of this widow, accept the prayer of Thy servant, multiply my prayer, and grant what I ask, so that I may become a temple of Thy grace, may she dwell in me, and may she herself teach me how to please her, herself, striking at let my harp play songs of tenderness, filled with joy, and let me bind my mind as if with a bridle, so that I do not sin before You by getting lost, and not be cast out from this light. Hear, O Lord, hear my prayer, and grant that I, who was wandering and unclean, having become pure, I, the fool, having become wise, I, the useless, having become useful in the flock of Your chosen ascetics and all the saints who have pleased You, may be called into Your Kingdom . Those who rejoice in paradise themselves intercede for me and cry out to You, the only Lover of Mankind. And You listen to their prayer and save me through their intercession. And through them I will give You glory because You heard their prayers, and were gracious to me, and did not despise my prayer. You, Lord, said through Your prophet: “Enlarge your mouth, and I will do it” (Ps. 80: 11). So, behold, both the heart and the mouth of Your servant are open; Fill them with Your grace, so that you may continually bless me with You, Christ our God our Savior. Sprinkle my heart, O good Lover of Mankind, with the dew of Your grace. For, just as the sown land cannot by itself nourish its growths, without visiting Your goodness, so my heart is not able to utter what is pleasing to You by Your grace, if You do not bear the fruit of righteousness. Behold, summer nourishes the fruits of the earth, and the trees are crowned with various flowers. And may the dew of Your grace water my mind and decorate it with the flowers of humility, contrition, love and patience. And what should I say? Behold, my prayer is weak, but my iniquities are great and strong. Sins oppress me, and my infirmities trouble me; You are rich and good, merciful and generous. You, who opened the eyes of the blind, open the eyes of my mind, so that I may continually contemplate Your beauty. Thou who hast opened the mouth of him who weareth the yoke, open my mouth to Thy praise and to the glory of Thy grace. You, who set a limit to the sea by the word of Your command, set a limit also to my heart by Your grace, so that it does not turn aside “to the right hand or to the left” (Deut. 5:32) from Your beauty. You, who gave water in the desert to a rebellious and quarrelsome people, give me contrition and tears for my eyes to cry day and night throughout my life with humility, with love and with a pure heart. Let “my prayer come near unto Thee, O Lord” (Ps. 119:169), and grant me the holy seed, that I may bring unto Thee full hilts of contrition. Glory to the Giver of what to bring to Him! Hear, O Lord, the prayer of Thy servant, through the intercession of all Thy saints, thou art blessed above all forever! Amen.

Kontakion, tone 51

Audio:

Like Your first martyr Stephen, / for those who kill him, we pray to Thee, O Lord, / and we desperately pray: / forgive those who hate everyone and those who offend us, / not one of them will perish for our sake, / but grace will save all Thy love, // All-Bountiful God .

Translation: Just as Your first martyr Stephen prayed to You for those who were killing him, O Lord, we too, falling down, pray: forgive those who hate everyone and offend us, so that not one of them will perish because of us, but all will be saved by Your grace, God is generous to everyone.

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Orthodox Church Council on Hate

In case of conflict with neighbors or relatives, the Church advises:

• Get rid of hatred towards other people, be calm in an argument, do not show irritation with a raised tone or insults (even in response). It is difficult, but with the help of prayer and self-soothing, anything is possible.

• Even if you dislike your opponents, try to pray for them - the prayer we have given below is quite short and easy. You will feel how the insult is forgotten, and most importantly, you no longer wish these people harm - after all, this is dangerous, it is known that curses and anger will return to you a hundredfold.

• Remember that the Church strongly condemns conspiracies and sending curses on opponents in a conflict, neighbors or relatives, and turning to sorcerers and psychics for this as a great sin. You should not multiply hatred by turning to the enemy of the human race - and it is with his help that any magicians, psychics, and especially “Orthodox witches and healers” do their dark deeds (these people only use the name of the Church for cover and advertising).

• Through a prayer called from neighbors, the Lord helps resolve the conflict itself, which will be resolved with the help of circumstances or new ideas - trust God, listen to the good thoughts that your heart tells you. There is evidence that after praying for neighbors - and in it people ask for peace and tranquility - the opponents even became friends.

Prayer before the icon of the Mother of God “Softening Evil Hearts”

Audio:

Oh, the long -suffering of the Mother of God, who exceeded all the dimers of the earth, by their purity and by many suffering, with the same on the lands of the transferred, the multi -shed eyes of the praying and preserving us under your crumb. Do You know no other refuge and warm intercession, but, as I have boldness in Him who was born of You, help and save us with Your prayers, so that we may without stumbling reach the Kingdom of Heaven Now, together with all the saints, we will sing praises to the One God in the Trinity, now and forever, and forever and ever. Amen.

Translation: O long-suffering Mother of God, who exceeds all the daughters of the earth, in Your purity and in the multitude of sufferings You endured on earth, accept our long-suffering groans and keep us under the shelter of Your mercy. Because we know no other refuge and ardent intercession besides You, but, as having the right to freely turn to the One who was born of You, help and save us with Your prayers, so that we may freely reach the Kingdom of Heaven, where with all the saints we will sing praises to the One God in the Trinity now and always, and forever and ever. Amen.

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Prayer for those who hate. How to love those who hate?

This should not be attributed to evil forces. witchcraft influence or unrighteousness of other people. After all, quarrels happen for natural everyday and psychological reasons: differences in worldview and outlook, differences in education and upbringing and, of course, the distance between generations, the difference in characters. Try not to judge your neighbors or relatives, especially not to hate them or be angry. Ask yourself what a saint you revered or the Lord Himself would do in your place. Remember in prayer even those who insult or offend you, hope that with God’s help your situation will be resolved.

Prayer before the icon of the Mother of God “Tenderness”

Audio:

Receive, O all-merciful, Most Pure Lady, Lady Theotokos, these honorable gifts, most useful to You, from us, Your unworthy servants: chosen from all generations, all creatures of heaven and earth the highest appearing, for for Your sake the Lord of Hosts be with us, and with You I know the Son of God and have become like His holy Body and His most pure Blood; Moreover, blessed art thou in the lineages of generations, O blessed one, the brightest of the Cherubim and the most honest of the Seraphim. And now, all-singing Most Holy Theotokos, do not cease to pray for us, your unworthy servants, so that we may be delivered from all evil advice and every situation and may remain unharmed from all poison. tago of the devil; but even to the end, through Your prayers, keep us uncondemned, for by Your intercession and help we are saved, we send glory, praise, thanksgiving and worship for everything in the Trinity to the One God and to the Creator of all, now forever and ever. Amen.

Translation: Accept, O all-good and mighty Most Pure Lady, Lady of God, the Mother of God, these precious gifts, due to You alone, from us, Your unworthy servants, chosen from all generations, who appeared to be the highest of all creations of heaven and earth! Indeed, thanks to You, the Lord of Powers is now with us, and through You we have come to know the Son of God and have been rewarded with His holy Body and His most pure Blood. Therefore, blessed are You in the generations of generations, having acquired bliss in God, brightest of the Cherubim, and highest in honor of the Seraphim. And now, all-praiseworthy Most Holy Theotokos, do not cease to pray for us, Thy unworthy servants, so that we may be delivered from every evil advice and from every misfortune, and remain unharmed from every poisonous attack of the devil. But even to the end, through Your prayers, without condemnation, preserve us, so that, saved by Your intercession and help, we, for all glory, praise, thanksgiving and worship, send up in the Trinity the one God and the Creator of all, now and always, and forever and ever. Amen.

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Sermon on the Mount or how to forgive those who hate us

Jesus, having climbed the mountain, taught people the basics of a happy, righteous life (Matthew 5:37-47), calling not to avenge an eye for an eye, but to forgive, filling your heart with kindness and patience.

The importance of prayer for those who offend and hate lies precisely in this sermon; if you want to become a son or daughter of the King of Heaven, to receive His Grace on earth and eternal life in Heaven, follow the commandments:

  • loves his enemies;
  • bless those who curse;
  • pray for those who offend;
  • do good to those who hate you;
  • accept your persecutors.


Jesus Christ revealed the Beatitudes in the Sermon on the Mount

Prayer for those who have offended and hated is needed to a greater extent by the victim himself in order to gain perfection, to put on God’s clothing of righteousness and love for the sake of the future salvation of himself and his descendants.

Venerable Seraphim of Sarov2

Audio:

Oh, reverend Father Seraphim! Offer up for us, servants of God (names), your merciful prayer to the Lord of hosts, may He grant us all that is beneficial in this life and all that is useful for spiritual salvation, may He protect us from the falls of sin and true repentance and knowledge He reads to us, and let us know without stumbling to the eternal Heavenly Kingdom, where you now shine in everlasting glory, and there sing with all the saints the Life-Giving Trinity forever and ever.

Oh, Rev. Father Seraphim! Offer up for us, the servants of God (names), your prayer, powerful in goodness, to the Lord of Hosts, may He grant us everything we need in this life and everything useful for spiritual salvation, may He protect us from the falls of sin and may He teach us true repentance so that Without stumbling we can enter the eternal Heavenly Kingdom, where you now shine in unfading glory, and there we can sing with all the saints of the Life-Giving Trinity forever and ever.

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Prayer of Ephraim the Syrian in Polish

Panie i Władko żywota mego! Nie dawaj mi ducha próżniactwa, zniechęcenia, chciwości, panowania i gadatliwości, Za to obdarz mnie, Twego sługę, duchem wstydliwości, skromności, cierpliwości i miłości, O, Panie i Królu! Spraw, abym widział moje przewinienia I nie potępiał brata mego. Albowiem Tyś łogosławiony jest na wieki wieków. Amen.

And here is how A. S. Pushkin translated this prayer into a poetic way:

The desert fathers and blameless wives, in order to fly with their hearts into the regions absent, in order to strengthen it in the midst of long-lasting storms and battles, composed many divine prayers; But not one of them touches me, Like the one that the priest repeats During the sad days of Lent; Most often it comes to my lips and strengthens the fallen with an unknown force:

Lord of my days! The spirit of sad idleness, Lust of command, this hidden serpent, And do not give idle talk to my soul. But let me see my sins, O God, so that my brother will not accept condemnation from me, and revive the spirit of humility, patience, love and chastity in my heart.

Read more about this poem by A.S. Read Pushkin in the material “The Desert Fathers...” - a poem by Pushkin, which was based on the repentant prayer of Ephraim the Syrian

Prayers to the Blessed Virgin Mary from the influence of enemies

And a respectable layman, without even wanting it, sometimes makes enemies. You can remain ignorant for a long time about the reasons for failures in life or at work, not attach importance to health problems, and not notice sudden mood swings and bouts of fatigue. And at this time, someone’s unkind thoughts or actions lead to a weakening of vital protection, pollution of the aura, and deterioration of physical condition.

Turning to the Virgin Mary for help will not only protect against negative influences, but will also heal the tormented soul of the person asking, and will bring peace and tranquility into his life.

Prayer from visible and invisible enemies

Prayer in front of the icon of the Mother of God “The Tsarina of All” has a special effect. The first phrases reveal the image of a Christian soul broken under the burden of trials. With hope and trust, she prays to the Mother of God for protection and patronage, for blessed light on the path of life. Glorifies the Blessed Virgin, believes in healing from physical and spiritual misfortunes, cleansing the soul and mind. He sincerely wishes to gain wisdom, patience, strengthen the strength of spirit in order to repel the attacks of earthly enemies and resist devilish temptations.

“O Most Pure Mother of our Lord, All-Tsarina! Hear the painful and sincere sighing of the Servant of God (proper name). I humbly stand before your image, offering up a prayer for help and protection. Pay attention to my groans and do not leave me without your support in my difficult hour of life. Just as every bird protects its chicks from threats with its wings, so cover me with your protective cover. Become my hope in days of testing, help me survive severe sorrows and preserve my soul. Instill strength in me to resist enemy attacks, grant me patience and wisdom to make the right decisions, do not let despair and weakness take over my soul. May your blessed light shine over me and illuminate my path in life, removing from it all the obstacles and traps placed by evil people and devilish forces. Heal, Holy Mother of God, my mental and physical ailments, brighten my mind, so that I can make the right decisions and resist my enemies, visible and invisible. Pray for me, Heavenly Queen, before your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ. I believe in your mercy and hope for your help, I glorify you in my prayers. Amen".

Prayer to soften evil hearts

Calls to pacify the desire of ill-wishers to cause harm, replacing it with faith in the Lord and spiritual wisdom. He asks to soften the hearts of the embittered, open them towards virtue and heal them from the wounds inflicted by the arrows of evil.

“Most Holy Theotokos, I ask you, servant of God (proper name), to soften evil human hearts, fill them with kindness and compassion. Quench the anger and hatred in our souls, take away sorrow and suffering from us. Before your Holy image, I pray to you about this and I trust only in you. Take away the arrows that pierced our bodies and souls and tormented us. Save us, Most Holy Theotokos, do not let us perish from cruelty and horror, grant our hearts softening. Amen".

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