Condolences on the death of the father of a husband, friend, colleague, in your own words in prose

Condolences on the death of a father
In the life of every person, there comes a time when parents pass into another world. Along with them, the feeling of “security” that we get used to from an early age goes away. We realize that our childhood is leaving us along with our parents.

The sudden death of a dad is a serious blow to a person’s psyche, which can cause different feelings:

Shock;
Anger;
Anger;
Negation;
Guilt;
Pain and other feelings.

This is a natural reaction to the death of a loved one. Often people try to hide their true feelings - “Keep yourself in control”, “Be strong”, as friends and relatives advise them. However, holding back your feelings is very harmful and can drive a person into depression.

Most of all, at the moment of saying goodbye to his father, a person needs sympathy, empathy for his grief. He needs a shoulder to cry on and someone with whom he can talk about the deceased and “let off steam” with words.

Condolences on the death of a friend's father

If one of your friends’ father died, you shouldn’t say: “Hold on, be strong, and so on.” Best of all, ask your boyfriend or girlfriend to talk about him and your feelings for him. Sympathy and attention are what your boyfriend or girlfriend needs. Allow the person to speak out, cry, even scream - this way you will help remove a heavy burden and ease the pain.

Official, memorized words of condolences will not help in such a situation. Say that you are sincerely sorry and want to help. If you knew the deceased personally, tell him about his merits, tell him why you respected him. You can recall a life story that shows the openness, good nature, and sense of humor of the deceased.

Your sincere participation will help relieve the peak of tension and feel a little better. A frank conversation about the feelings experienced in connection with the death of dad is one of the best cures for unbearable, spiritual emptiness.

Features of a memorial speech for the anniversary

If in the speech at the memorial table on the day of the funeral the main emphasis is on the desire to share the grief of relatives and friends, thereby easing it, then on the anniversary of death it is appropriate to emphasize the aspect of memory of the deceased.

Otherwise, the construction of an anniversary speech follows the main rules for such occasions. It should not be unnecessarily long, since others present are also ready to speak. First, you need to address the audience, introduce yourself to them, and outline your relationship with the deceased (childhood friend, work colleague, housemate), since, most likely, not all participants in the anniversary memorial meeting know each other well. Thoughtful, carefully chosen words should be spoken sincerely, if possible without reference to the written text, which, of course, can and even should be prepared in advance.

The custom of holding a wake after a person’s funeral arose in ancient times.

Organization of funerals

In a memorial speech on the anniversary, it is necessary to especially emphasize the merits of the deceased and talk about why it became so difficult without him. It is quite appropriate to cite the favorite phrases and sayings of the deceased, to recall an interesting episode of life that is connected with him. Memories filled with warmth and light sadness are a key component of the memorial speech for the anniversary.

At the end, as a rule, they say: “Eternal memory” or “Kingdom of heaven”, wishing the deceased to rest in peace. Instead of these traditional phrases, you can choose a suitable short epitaph, including a poetic one. This usually limits the use of poetry in funeral speeches. An exception may be a memorial for a creative figure or a person who during his lifetime was, for example, a joker, a merry fellow, or an amateur poet.

When dad died. condolences from friends

Examples of mournful words from friends regarding the death of their father:

I empathize with you; this tragedy left no one indifferent. It’s hard for me to find words in this sad hour. However, I am ready to support you, day and night.
You can count on my help and support. I wish with all my heart to reduce your pain and alleviate your suffering. Please accept my sincere condolences, your father will forever remain in our hearts.
A wise, caring, cheerful man, the father of my best friend, has passed away. This is a great loss for everyone who knew the deceased personally. We will preserve the bright memory of him. The kingdom of heaven, to his pure soul.

Text of condolences on the death of a colleague's father

Most often, we do not know our colleagues’ parents, so when saying goodbye it is better to say short words of encouragement.

I sympathize with you and share the pain of your loss. Everlasting memory.
I sincerely sympathize with your grief, please remember that you are not alone, you can count on my support.
I sincerely pray that your dad's soul will find peace and be at peace for those left on earth. He lived a worthy life, raised wonderful children, and now his soul has returned to our Creator. The bright memory of him will remain in the hearts of all who knew him. Please accept my deepest condolences.
I want you to know how much I regret your dad's death. I share your grief and am ready to help in difficult times. The Kingdom of heaven.

You left, leaving your mother alone. Well, now I will take care of her

The day a truly loved one passes away can take a very long time. And the desire to establish the status of “dad is no more” can arise at any moment.

You were only my dad. That's why I love you so much. That's why I'm so sorry that you are no more...
Thanks to those who support, simply support, without saying any unnecessary words.
How can I get married, have children... How can I live without you, dad?!
He wasn't perfect, but one thing I know is that my dad was definitely not like others.
And, you know, dad, our mom couldn’t have raised me like this without you. I miss you very much...
There's no point in waiting for you to come back. But sometimes I still hope so, I won’t hide it.
There are a lot of funny jokes in the world. But I miss the ones my dad joked about.
How I would like to be in childhood, where daddy is barely 30. And the main thing is that he is alive.
So unbearable. All I can do is be angry at fate for taking my dad away from me.
I will get through, I will survive. And all because my dad believes in me. Even if from heaven...
He is no longer there, but why do I hear him? In the light breath of the wind, the bright, bright sun in spring.
No matter what happens to me, I will always find time to come to you. Even if you don't know about it!

Sincere condolences to my husband on the death of his father

When a father-in-law dies, the wife should support her husband with sincere empathy. Words are not so important, allow your husband to express his pain, console him with simple, gentle words with which you console a child.

Darling, I sincerely regret the death of your dad - this is a terrible loss for all of us. The only thing that can help us survive this pain is shared memories. Your father was a wonderful, caring, kind man - this is how we will keep him in our memory. I share your pain and pray for dad's soul. This sinless man is worthy of the kingdom of heaven.
Your father lived a long, full life and achieved a lot himself. We will remember him as a cheerful, loving father and grandfather. It seems to me that he would not want to see how much you are hurting and blaming yourself for not paying enough attention to him during your life. Believe me, he was not angry with you, because he himself was the same as you. We will often remember him and pray for his soul that he may find peace in our eternal, heavenly home.
Honey, I know how much dad meant to you. This is a terrible, irreparable loss. We will miss his warmth, caring, wisdom and sense of humor. But he will forever live in our memory, he continues to live in you and our children. I pray to God for his soul and our family.
This terrible tragedy for our family, I understand that it is more difficult for you than anyone, because this was the most important person in your life. I share your pain and sincerely sympathize with you. I will also miss your dad, his smile, his kindness. Dear, you can count on my support, don’t keep this grief to yourself, tell me about your feelings.

Based on these statements, you can find your own words that are more suitable for your situation - the main thing is to be extremely sincere and open.

Give your husband the opportunity to be himself, not to hide or accumulate pain, but to throw it out. Support him, even if you did not feel strong affection for your father-in-law.

Condolences on the death of your father’s father can be said in simple words - dear, we are with you in sorrow and in joy, always remember this.

The only thing worse than separation is death.

It is very painful when parents leave, especially if they leave early. If you are overwhelmed by pain, find relief in statuses about a dad who is no longer alive.

I thank life for giving me such a father. And I hate death for taking him.
You are not answering? And don't answer. Only memories of you warm my soul. It's such a pity that they are erased...
It's too painful for me. But I would really like you, daddy, to have a good time in heaven!
You lived an honest, albeit short, life. The whole family loves you, but most of all - me, your daughter.
It turns out that I never knew what melancholy was. Exactly until my dad left.
And, you know, I wish I had never seen your grave, Dad. More precisely, so that it does not exist at all.
You just stopped being around. And so you exist, I know.
And not even write you a letter. And I didn’t have time to tell you so much. Father…
Yes, you are no more. But you taught me to love. And he taught me to be truly happy. I will never forget this!
I come to your grave not alone, but with my loved one. And soon I will come again with a small miracle.
Many dads quit, but mine was not one of those. And yet they managed to separate us. Death...

Children's poems about dad

Verse 1. About dad

They read all the poems about moms, Dads, as if they forget, I’ll tell you a fairy tale, About my daddy.

I don’t regret anything for my dad. We are best friends, Where he goes, I go too.

He goes to work, takes me to kindergarten, and comes home from work, tells me about hunting.

He and I will sit on the sofa and read a book. Let's make mom some soup-shulyum, clean everything up.

Sometimes he takes me to the cinema, sometimes to a hill in the park, but he doesn’t take me to the bathhouse, he says it’s hot there.

Verse 2. Best Dad

Maybe he can play football, maybe he can read a book to me, maybe he can warm up soup for me, maybe he can watch a cartoon,

He can play checkers, He can even wash cups, He can draw cars, He can collect pictures,

Maybe give me a ride instead of a fast horse. He can catch fish, fix the faucet in the kitchen.

For me, there is always a hero - My best dad!

Verse 3. My dad

My dad is handsome and strong like an elephant. Beloved, attentive, affectionate.

I'm looking forward to seeing Dad get home from work. He always brings me something in my briefcase.

My dad is resourceful, smart and brave. He can handle even difficult things.

He is also a naughty man, a mischief maker and a prankster. With him, my every day turns into a holiday.

My dad is cheerful, but strict and honest. It's fun to read books and play with him.

And it’s boring without dad, sledding. No one can laugh so loudly.

My dad is a wizard, He is the best. He instantly turns into whatever you ask for.

He can become a clown, a tiger, a giraffe. But what He knows best is being a dad.

I will hug him and quietly whisper: “My daddy, I love you dearly!”

You are the most caring, the dearest, you are kind, you are the best, and you are only mine!

Verse 4. If dad...

You need to kiss dad on the forehead and pat him on the head, and say: “You are the best!” You are indispensable to us. —

He will then want to immediately complete any task and, moreover, so quickly - don’t keep up with him!

Birthday of a dad who is no longer alive. Poems in memory of the deceased dad from his daughter

One father means more than a hundred teachers. (D. Herbert)
Everyone writes how much they love their mother, but if it weren’t for dad, you wouldn’t exist either...
To mom 100 questions per minute: what to eat, what to wear, what to buy... To dad one: where is mom?
All fathers want their children to achieve what they themselves failed to achieve. (I. Goethe)
A father should be a friend to his children, not a tyrant.

A father's strictness is a wonderful medicine: it is more sweet than bitter. (Epictetus)
There is a man in my life who loves me very much, fulfills my whims and says that I am a princess... Daddy, you are the best!
It is much easier to become a father than to remain one. (V.O. Klyuchevsky)
And the only truly beloved man who will never leave alone is dad...
A father's prudence is the most effective instruction for children. (Democritus)
He is the father who educates, not the one who gives birth. (Menander)
Anyone can become a father, but only a special one becomes a father.
Beautiful quotes about dad
- The father knows his children no worse than God does us all, he reads in the depths of hearts and judges the very intentions. (Honore de Balzac)
Some people want an oligarch dad, and others just want him to be...
I believe only one man who, when asked: “Do you love me?”, will answer: “Of course, daughter!”
The daughter is the only woman in front of whom dad should not try to look smart, strong, and courageous. For a daughter, her dad is already the best...
The father should be such that the child misses him, and the mother should never think of parting with him.
When you finally realize that your father was usually right, you yourself have a son growing up convinced that his father is usually wrong. If you don't learn from your mistakes, there's no point in making them. (P. Lawrence)
Dear Dad! I may meet a prince one day, but you will forever be my king!
I found a photo where dad is 19 years old. I would marry someone like that too.
It will never be possible to replace a good father with the same one. (Vasily Sukhomlinsky)
I love dad, he will cook, feed, and clean up after himself.
There is no need for another example, When the example of the father is in the eyes. (A. Griboyedov)
The father is not the one who gave the seed... but the one who raised the DOLL! The one who walks with her, plays, braids her shaggy ponytail... calls her... MY BEAUTIFUL. This here... is daddy!
Everyone writes: I love mommy, mommy is the best! I agree with this, but why did they forget about fathers? My father is also the best! And each of us has the best father... Just for us!
You walk in the morning like a zombie, drooling as you go, shaggy than ever - but only dad will tell you at this moment “oh, my beauty is coming!”
Quotes about dad with meaning
- When I was fourteen, my father was so stupid that I could hardly stand him; but when I was twenty-one years old, I was amazed at how much this old man had grown wiser in the last seven years. (M. Twain)
No man can love you more than your dad does.
Oh, these beautiful men. They are always smart boys first. And when they have babies, they become fathers. Some are even dads. And the very chosen ones not only become, but also remain forever... (Tatyana Solomatina)
The most important contribution to raising a child is the right dad...

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#1 And only memory remains for me

He was with me always and everywhere, Laughed, cried and was sad. I will not forget his bottomless eyes.

And I know that he loved me.

I know that no matter what happened, He always protected me. And only the memory remains for me

About him. And I blame myself

That I couldn’t say goodbye, That I didn’t have time to understand, That I was destined to part with him,

Lose him forever.

I know for sure - I deserved it... I couldn’t save him. But I loved him madly

And I will always love.

He may not hear me now, But I know what he sees, How tired he breathes without him.

The one who called him father.

#2 To Father

She touched the cold stone with her hand. On the stone there is a portrait, it’s so familiar! Just like in life: you are cheerful and have a mischievous look...

Father, you have always been like this with me!

You are in stone, flowers and, of course, in the rain, in the breath of the wind, in circles on the water. You rose above the ground like green grass...

You're near. You are with us... You are in another life.

We were so happy to walk together, I felt your support along the way. You loved sunrises and the smell of spring,

The warmth of women's hands that are given as a gift.

Father, you served your Fatherland for thirty years: You drove steel cars in the sky. And we both knew in peaceful days Deprivation, war and conflagration fires.

You sent the Migi into flight in Egypt - In Afghanistan I saw the grin of death. Let the song be interrupted and the flight interrupted,

But a good memory lives on in our descendants!

#3 Dear dad, you were real

Beloved dad, you were real! You could scold and regret. You were strict, and you were also softer than everyone else,

You could warm our hearts with words.

I always hurried to you for advice, It was easy for me to talk to you. You understood without speaking,

How your heart aches for us.

You did everything for us in life. You tried to move forward cheerfully. Sometimes you didn’t feel support,

I fought against failures as best I could.

There were quarrels, pain, misunderstandings. But this made us all stronger. After all, in those hours of mental suffering

We became closer and closer.

Thank you, dad, for your advice, for your affection and warmth! I will never forget about this,

And without you it will not be easy for me.

I am very sad that this happened, that you left, leaving us alone. This loss was given to us by the Almighty.

Let's not remember the bad days.

All the pain from parting and loss, All the bitterness from the fact that you are not here, We need to overcome in order to live without dad, composing prayers and songs in memory of you.

All we have left, by inertia, is to love you with a wounded soul. And, perhaps, a scar on the heart,

It will heal on its own someday.

#4 In memory of my beloved dad

The person who could understand, He could believe and forgive. Accept any bitter truth,

The man who could love!

He is dear to me, I respect him, I took my example from him, he is in my memory. One of those I always miss,

He brought goodness to everyone with his smile.

His features, eyes and gentle hands, His gait is always a little in a hurry, Trembling sounds of his favorite song,

I will remember - even while barely breathing!

Beloved DAD, my beloved DAD, It hurts me very much - you are no longer there. I remember everything, your smell is always with me...

I am your daughter! I am your flesh and blood!

During your life, you protected my peace, took care of me as best you could, protected me from troubles. Now in that world you are my keeper,

Paint my life's path white.

Thank you for everything you gave me! For everything I was able to learn! I love you!!! And you knew about it!

I'm sorry I didn't have time to say goodbye...

#5 Dad, I miss you so much

It’s a pity that you left so early. It’s a pity that you left us alone. You know, daddy, I missed

Tenderness, affection, your hugs.

Dad, I love you more than anyone! And I can never forget your tender: “My dear!

My most innocent child!”

You know, dad, I felt bad, I had to cry and suffer. But, believe me, I managed dryly

I have to fight back these feelings!

Dad, I’m strong - I’m all about you! And, like you, I’m trying to be kind. I love only you more than my life!

And I will never be able to forget you!

How I dreamed in my childhood, For you to come home as soon as possible, And under your sensitive guidance, To play with some kind of spinning top...

Dad, you probably see me and lead me on the right path. You will notice all my mistakes...

And you’ll fix it... If anything happens, forgive me!

Dad, I miss you so much, my cloudless childhood. Unfortunately, I don’t know how to get you back.

And this makes me feel completely uneasy!

#6 I saw my dad in the mirror

I saw my dad in the mirror, accidentally seeing him. I saw him and almost cried,

Without understanding why.

From the twilight of the corridor, suddenly dad smiled at me. As if he was at home as before,

And not in the blue sky.

Just a glance, but like an arrow, my sadness pierced my dreams. We have been a wall for ten years now

Separated from that spring.

Then I realized: in the reflection there was me, looking like him... One short moment -

And how many things I remembered!

#7 Hello, dad!

How are you doing in this endless sky? You know, it’s pouring so much here that it’s scary. Dad, I miss you, but it’s all a secret,

It’s just easier for me to remain silent, but in fact...

Dad, I was trying on a white dress...That’s right, dad, that’s what happened. Dad, tell me, is this a woman’s happiness?!

It's a pity you're just not here. It was kind of sad.

Are you going to watch? Smile and cry. And, like a mother, you will hug and congratulate me. Stop it, I beg you! I can hide my tears.

And I can restrain myself, only for your sake.

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How to express condolences?

The reaction to a message about death is sympathy and empathy.
Condolence is a form of expressing sympathy regarding a death. Sincere condolences provide for the format of a personal, personal appeal .

Today, condolences via SMS, WhatsApp, Telegram or email are quite appropriate. Funeral condolence cards look like a personal message on the recipient’s smartphone. Add a few sincere words from the heart!

short words of condolences in an obituary or public speech at a memorial service or wake . In an expression of sympathy from an Orthodox Christian, you can add: “We pray for ___.” More information about the rules of condolences can be found on the Epitaph.ru website.

Poems about dad and children

Verse 1. About dad and daughter

Her father's little daughter is growing up in a small crib against the wall. She wakes up and frowns if her mother is not there. Where is she located? Who will give me the answer?

The girl is a baby, she will soon be a year old, but she is already a citizen, a small people... Days run after days, the first step has been taken. The path to the top is difficult, I am not a magician yet

I’m still a baby, I’m only a year old, I’m the only one in the family... My first birthday has arrived. Show me quickly what you bought me.

A soft toy or an airplane I have a date, I live for a whole year. During this time I have grown up a lot. I have gotten a lot wiser and found friends.

Everything is still ahead, of course, but a whole year has already passed...

Verse 2. About father and son

We trust each other with our secrets And we probably know everything about each other.

How could it be otherwise, How could it be otherwise - We are friends, and that means a lot.

Dad and I have long been men, not children. I can give everything in the world for dad.

It’s not weak for him to do the same. How else? That's why he's dad!

I'm asking you to please be happy

Statuses about the death of a father from his daughter are for those who cannot help but take everything to heart. It may not be easy for you at this hour, but the following phrases will help best reflect the situation.

Thank you to the Universe for giving me such a wonderful dad, and for taking him away...
Words cannot express what I feel right now. Only you will understand this, dad.
I would give everything in the world, just not for this grief. If only you would come back!
I smile when I remember my dad. It’s not that I’m no longer sad, it’s just that even the memories of him are pleasant to me.
Come, at least in a dream. But please come back often.
When I fall asleep, I think about you all the time. I'm scared. Nothing can be returned. Can't fix anything.
I’m ready, dad, to endure everything. If only everything was fine with you there, in Paradise.
Yes, I was not a gift, a good daughter. But believe me, father, I miss you more than anyone.
We won't spend any more time together. All that remains is to be silent and light a candle...
I cannot understand and realize that I will never see you again.

The passing of a loved one is the worst thing that can happen. Never isolate yourself and use statuses about your dad who is no longer alive.

Beautiful poems about dad that touch the soul

Dad is an important person in life who deserves respect, attention and love. Poems about dad come in a variety of varieties - for adults, for children, for birthdays. There are also poems about father and daughter, son. Beautiful poems touch the soul, awaken pleasant feelings and sometimes encourage you to forget possible bad things.