If your mother-in-law is a toxic person, you don’t need to endure it, because conflicts will still happen, no matter how loyal you try to treat her. A ritual of white magic will help correct the situation - a conspiracy against the mother-in-law, thanks to which the spouse’s mother will stop interfering in the affairs of your family.
The described rites and rituals have a mild effect and will not harm your husband’s mother. It will not be possible to get rid of her visits forever, but it is still quite possible to reduce the influence.
What result to expect
A ritual to protect yourself from your mother-in-law using a conspiracy will help in several ways:
- The influence of the mother-in-law on your spouse will noticeably decrease, and accordingly, it will be easier to achieve harmony in the relationship.
- You will notice that guest visits will be less frequent. In general, she will come only after your invitation.
- Your husband's mother will become calmer and more tolerant towards you. Quarrels will stop, communication will reach a new, higher level. You will be able to talk and interact with each other calmly.
Psychological background
When getting married, every girl expects that she and her husband will have a friendly and strong family. Unfortunately, sometimes these dreams remain just dreams. The mother-in-law brings nervousness and serious discord into the relationship. Why doesn't the mother-in-law love her daughter-in-law? Psychology gives the answer: the fact is that many mothers cannot come to terms with the idea that their beloved boy has grown up and is no longer under parental control and care. The mother continues to control her son’s every step, regularly comes to his house with checks, can call dozens of times a day, and demand a minute-by-minute report. Of course, this will irritate the wife.
A man’s excessive attachment to his mother also plays a special role in this. You won't be able to get rid of this problem overnight. The fact is that the dependence of these two people on each other has been formed over many years. Maternal overprotection may have many secret intentions and reasons. When deciding how to get your husband away from your mother-in-law, you will have to fight not with the character of this woman, but with those images and attachments that have long entered the subconscious of the husband and his mother. The fact is that if your spouse had a desire to get rid of his overly annoying mother, he would have done it a long time ago. Your main task is to awaken this desire in him.
Offsets
To the moon
Prepare a sumptuous dinner and invite your mother-in-law. It is advisable to carry out the ritual at a time when it is already dark outside and the bright disk of the night luminary is visible in the sky.
Important! The mother-in-law should sit down at the table first!
As soon as the spouse’s mother tries at least one of the dishes presented on the table, we fold our fingers under the table into a fig, point it at her and say three times in a quiet whisper:
“As the moon shines with bright light, so that the heart of God’s servant (mother-in-law’s name) is filled with pure love for me. So that there are no quarrels and squabbles between us, so that she is affectionate and friendly towards me. And if not, then don’t let her set foot on my threshold! My word is locked tightly and tightly, and the key is hidden behind the moon! Amen!"
After casting a magic spell three times, try to remain silent for a while - this way you will seal your words. The conspiracy begins that same evening.
From photo
It is important to wait for the phase of the moon when it is waning. In the evening, take a photo of your mother-in-law and spouse. Slowly tear up the photo in such a way as to separate the people captured. As you do this, say the words:
“Let the irrepressible connection weaken, let the weight of unhealthy attachment disappear! How a hot summer is far from a bitter winter, so that a mother, of her own free will, distances herself from her adult son! I break the connection, but without pain, I cleanse the threshold of my house from damage and hatred! Let it be so! Amen!"
Finally, the separated image of your husband must be sewn to your photo with red thread, placing them right sides together. The part on which the mother-in-law remains should be taken outside the house, torn into small pieces and scattered to the wind.
For salt
You'll need a new pack of salt. The spell is pronounced on the waning moon. Unpack the salt, slowly pour a handful into your palm and whisper a spell to your mother-in-law:
“The salt is salty, snow-white, they are waiting for you on everyone’s table! Drive away from my house the anger and hatred that lives in the soul of God's servant (name of mother-in-law), so that it is no longer on the threshold. Let the path that leads from her house to our house be erased from threshold to threshold! Help her get rid of her, help her get rid of the complaints that make no sense! Amen!"
Next, we sprinkle the threshold of our house and the threshold of our mother-in-law's house. We also add some salt under the rug that lies right at the entrance. From then on, your spouse's mother will come only after your invitation.
Important! The ritual must be repeated a month later!
With fire
To carry out the ceremony, take a photograph showing your mother-in-law with your husband. Tear it in two very slowly, separating the people depicted. In this case, you should mentally focus on the picture and imagine how the connection is actually broken: the mother-in-law lives in her own interests, and the husband does not run to her for tips.
Part of the photograph depicting the mother-in-law is burned, and the ashes are taken outside and scattered far from their home. The second half of the photograph is also put on fire (separately from the first, so that the ashes do not mix!), but is scattered in the house. To do this, open the door and window so that the wind blows from the street inside.
Mother-in-law destroys the family
The question is often asked: “What to do if she moved in with us? The mother-in-law is destroying the family!” The main advice of psychologists is to realize that if there is love, intimacy, support and trust between spouses, no intrigues will destroy the marriage.
The question of how to put the mother-in-law in her place will not arise if the husband understands, no matter how much he loves and respects his mother, his primary duty is to protect his own family. The wife can always show wisdom and smooth out too sharp corners. Consider your mother as one of the difficulties on the path to happiness.
Rituals for mother-in-law's love
On the plantain
The grass, or rather, the inflorescences and seeds of plantain, must be prepared in advance. We dry them, put them in a mortar and, grinding them into powder, we pronounce a magical spell on the mother-in-law:
“I collected this grass not for soup, but for broth! I will cook a thick broth and treat it to the servant of God (name), so that her chest will become empty with anger. Let my family get stronger, and let anger and hatred never set foot on the threshold, and let her love me like her daughter! Amen!"
Brew a drink, treat it to your mother-in-law and drink it with her. From then on, relations will begin to improve every day.
For a cake and 7 candles
Buy seven candles at church. Bake a cake on the full moon or during the full moon phase. At midnight, stick candles into the baked goods, light them and say the following words:
“Different blood, but equal love - you gave birth to a son and gave him to me! I turn to the powers of heaven, trying to find the path to the heart of God’s servant (name)! Just as you live in love with your son, so be reconciled with me! So that our house does not know hatred, so that it is filled with goodness and love! Let it be so! Amen!"
A magical plot to change the behavior of an evil mother-in-law is pronounced firmly five times, after which they wait until the candles burn out completely and go to bed. The next morning, the mother-in-law is invited to visit and treated to the enchanted pie.
On the Bible
First, you need to go to church and light a candle for the health of your spouse’s mother. Then purchase a Bible directly in this temple and return home. In the evening, take a photograph of your mother-in-law in your left hand and say the words three times:
“Lord Almighty, Heavenly Father, I ask for your help, hear my request, I pray! Let the anger of God's servant (name) towards me disappear, and let love and care take its place! Let your head forget about slander, and goodness come in its place! So that she comes to my threshold not at her own will, but at my discretion! Amen!"
We place the enchanted photograph between the pages of the Bible, close it and put it in a secluded place.
Why is the mother-in-law unhappy with her daughter-in-law?
There may be simpler explanations for aggressive behavior. Therefore, before deciding how to put your mother-in-law in her place, you need to identify the cause of the discontent.
5 reasons why a mother-in-law interferes with her daughter-in-law:
- Authoritarian character. The woman is accustomed to household members obeying her. She expects the same from her son’s wife.
- Jealousy of another who took her child.
- Overestimation of the son and the belief that his wife does not deserve him.
- The action of hormones, which causes aggressiveness, irritability and tearfulness.
- There are no other worries. If a woman does not take care of her other children, husband, or grandchildren, then naturally all her attention is concentrated on the life of her son.
Rituals from an evil mother-in-law
On things
For the ceremony you will need any item from your mother-in-law’s wardrobe and an item of clothing that she once gave you. We tie them together with a knot and make a slander:
“As I knit a strong knot, so I bind our souls! Let peace grow stronger between us, let love settle in our hearts! I deliver God’s servant (name) from anger and hatred, from this day until the end of centuries! I’ll call you mother, you call me daughter! Amen!"
We hide knitted items on the bottom shelf of the closet so that no one will find them. They will become a talisman against an evil mother-in-law, and the plot will work as long as things are tied in a strong knot.
For jelly
We collect or buy fresh berries and fruits, cook sweet jelly from them and say:
“As a mare loves a foal, as a cow loves a calf, as a sheep loves a lamb, may God’s servant (name) also love me with all her heart! Heavenly Father, satisfy my request, give me a mother-in-law with love in your heart! Let it be as I say, let it be as you, Lord Almighty, will! Amen!"
The mother-in-law should be invited to visit and treated to prepared jelly.
For the new month
At a time when the moon looks like a thin sickle, start cooking pancakes. And while you bake them, say the words:
“Just as a thin month, a bright month was born in the heavens and rolled along its wide path across the heavens, so a strong force appeared in me against the servant of God (name)! The truth in my words is strong, as I say from now on, so it will be! No one will dare to contradict me with a word or a look! Amen!"
We treat our mother-in-law to pancakes and wait for the result. And the more often you carry out such a conspiracy, the more power you will have over your husband’s mother.
On the waning moon
Wait until the moon enters its waning phase and come to visit your mother-in-law - the ritual should be performed in her house. Take any thing that is constantly here, preferably bed linen, and say a spell while looking at the moon:
“As the moon melts in the sky, so the anger of God’s servant (name) decreases! Let him be silent, like a fish is silent in water! Let it be done according to my word! Amen!"
Pie ritual: alternative version
In order for your mother-in-law and sister-in-law to be treated well and kindly, you can perform a ritual to establish peace in the house using:
- personal item of my husband's mother;
- clothes donated by the spouse's mother.
Objects are tied together and the knot is carefully secured. The ritual is carried out according to the previously described scheme, placing a bundle of clothes in the center of the circle along with the pie. When finished, they hide the items where no one at home will find them. It is forbidden to talk about the plan and the ritual performed.
If over the years the knot symbolizing good relations is lost, new conflicts are possible.
How to protect yourself from quarrels with your mother-in-law
This conspiracy against the mother-in-law works even if carried out at a distance. This is usually required when the spouse's mother lives in another city, but still has the habit of visiting you from time to time. And at every such meeting, a conflict inevitably occurs.
For the ritual you will need a glass of water, three church candles and the face of a saint.
The plot needs to be read on the icon that is closest to you!
We light candles, place them next to the icon, place water here and say:
“Help me, Heavenly Father, help me, saints! I ask for help, I pray for help! I ask not for myself alone, but for my whole family! How quiet the river is in the morning, so quiet and calm that the servant of God (name) becomes, because no one can have a normal life with her! Let it be as I ask! Amen!"
Then the water should be divided into three parts, given to the mother-in-law and husband to drink, and the third part to yourself.
A conspiracy so that the mother-in-law does not interfere
This plot fork will not make friends between you and your husband’s mother, but it will give you the opportunity to coexist normally, without quarreling or causing trouble. To carry out this ritual, you will need a photo of your mother-in-law, preferably a recent one. Then wait for any Orthodox holiday (ideally Easter) and go to a church service with the photo. After finishing it, buy a bible and head home.
At home, place the Bible and a photo of a woman next to it on the table, cover it with your left and right hands, respectively, and say the following words:
After that, put the photo between pages 8 and 9 and put it where no one else can find it except you. Be sure that in the near future the situation in the house will become more favorable.
How to make your mother-in-law love you
There is also a conspiracy in which a spell is cast on the mother-in-law, which forces her to radically reconsider her attitude towards her daughter-in-law. It was used many years ago, and thanks to its effectiveness, the ritual has remained unchanged to this day. To carry it out, you will need grass, which we are used to seeing everywhere - in any yard, as well as along every road. This is the most common plantain. The fact is that it is capable of cleansing a person from negative energy, that is, it serves as a kind of cleansing filter.
It is worth saying that we will not need leaves, which we have been accustomed to applying to wounds and cuts since childhood, but flower petals and buds. The use of plantain seeds is also allowed. All these parts of the flower must be carefully picked and then dried thoroughly. Then the dried parts of the flower are crushed into powder using a mortar, while saying:
You can brew delicious aromatic teas from this herbal collection. In order for the plot for the love of the mother-in-law to take effect, you need to make sure that the husband’s mother tries the drink, then it will be easier for the daughter-in-law to live.
What rules should you follow?
Even though magic is not an exact science, it also loves rules to follow. Let's learn about the basic principles of reading conspiracies for mother-in-law:
70% of magic depends on whether you believe in yourself
That is, it is important to believe in what you are doing, otherwise there is no point in starting witchcraft. The daughter-in-law only needs to have a positive attitude - this should be in her thoughts and actions. It will not be possible to punish with the help of such magic. Absolutely all manipulations must take place without publicity. It is important after the ritual is completed to send gratitude to a higher power.
Plot for mother-in-law - short, mental
A conspiracy to make your mother-in-law love you
It is important that the plot is aimed at a positive resolution of the conflict between the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. If you wish your mother-in-law harm and want to annoy her in some way, you should not expect a positive effect from the ritual performed.
Remember that magic can help improve relationships within a family. However, only you are able to maintain this note in the future. Try to approach wisely what your mother-in-law is experiencing, then it will be easier for you to establish peace in the family.
The husband has a mother who worries about her son - if previously she took sole care of him, now her daughter-in-law competes with her. To soften her in relations with your daughter-in-law, simply carry out a conspiracy on your mother-in-law and thereby prevent the breakdown and destruction of the marriage.
Ritual to relieve husband's dependence on mother
On the bow
A conspiracy to remove a husband’s dependence on an evil mother-in-law works well if the ritual is carried out during the phase of the waning moon, which falls on Thursday. At home you need to be alone and prepare an onion, a candle brought from church, a glass of water and a knife that no one has ever used.
In the evening, turn off the lights in all rooms and light a candle. Using a knife, cut the onion into two equal parts, lower the halves into a glass of water and pronounce the spell:
“How an onion connects with water, so that I, the servant of God (name), live in peace and unity with the servant of God (name of spouse) and no one and nothing could separate us. So that my husband, given to me by God, listens to my words, but is only interested in my advice, and my mother-in-law lives in her house and does not come to us. Amen!"
The onion halves are immersed in the very bottom of the glass, the candle is extinguished with water from it and put away in a secluded place. Next, the glass must be placed on the windowsill and left there for a week. On the eighth day we drain the water. We bury one half of the onion near our house, the second - at the threshold of the mother-in-law.
For holy water and salt
Another Thursday ritual that helps to keep your spouse away from your mother-in-law. This is done using water, a knife and salt. The phase of the moon in this case does not matter. We take water into a glass, add three handfuls of table salt, immerse the knife and cut the water with a cross. We pronounce the words of the conspiracy:
“I remember Our Lord, I signify you with the holy cross! Help, Heavenly Father, take God’s servant (mother-in-law’s name) away from my house and separate my husband from her! I beg, Lord, for your mercy, let him think only good things about me, let him not tear his son away from his family! How the river fills with water in the rain, so that the soul of my mother-in-law is filled with my love! Amen!"
The plot must be read three times, then go outside with a glass, dig a hole under any tree and pour water into it, saying the following words:
“As mother earth absorbs the salty water that I have enchanted, so let the servant of God (name of mother-in-law) absorb only good thoughts into her mind! The earth will give the harvest, the servant of God (name of the mother-in-law) will give me her son. Amen!"
Black magic against mother in law
If a woman dreams of teaching her mother-in-law a lesson once and for all and turning her husband away from his mother, she can resort to a powerful ritual classified as black magic. To perform the ritual you will need a handful of table salt. The ritual itself is performed on the waning month. Salt is spoken at dawn using the following words:
The text is read exactly 9 times. The charmed salt is poured onto the mother-in-law's doorstep. After a few weeks, you can note the result of the ritual
It is important to note that such a ritual has strong magical powers, so performing it incorrectly can be destructive not only for the mother-in-law, but also for all parties to the conflict
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To remove the mother-in-law from the husband's life
To prevent a husband from listening to his mother in everything she says and turning him against his daughter-in-law, several effective rituals can be performed.
Ritual for salt
To prevent your husband from running to his mother every 5 minutes for advice, and at the same time, the mother-in-law herself does not sit in your house day and night - perform a simple salt ritual. Take a handful of salt and say over it 13 times:
“You are salty, white and free-flowing salt - drive God’s servant away from my house... the name of the mother-in-law... so that she can live her own life and not interfere with ours. Help me get rid of her advice and complaints, protect me from evil and hatred. Help her forget the way to our house, and stop coming to us.”
Afterwards, sprinkle the charmed salt on her threshold and put a little under her rug - while she is there, the mother-in-law will not come to you unless you call her yourself. This serves as an astral barrier from her irrepressible control and attention to your home.
Ritual with fire
This ritual is carried out using a joint photo of mother and son - you carefully tear it into 2 parts with your hands, without a knife or scissors. The main thing at this moment is to mentally imagine how the connection between them is broken and she simply stops coming to you.
Next, burn each half of the photo separately and without mixing the ashes - just scatter the ashes from the part of the photo with your mother-in-law in the wind blowing from the house, but also scatter the ashes from the part of the photo with your spouse in the wind - the main thing is that it blows into your house. Such a ritual is simple and convenient in that there is no need to remember and pronounce certain words of the conspiracy - the main thing is to mentally imagine how the connection between your spouse and mother-in-law is broken.
To quickly ward off an annoying relative
The plot will help you get rid of your unloved relative easily and for a long time. It is used when the husband’s mother comes to visit too often, calls endlessly and bothers her with her conversations, and turns the husband against his daughter-in-law. To carry out the ritual and ward off your mother-in-law, you need to prepare:
- one medium-sized onion;
- a glass of holy or living water;
- 3 church or white candles.
This ritual is performed at night, on the days of the waning moon. The luminary takes with it everything bad and unpleasant. Fill a glass with water and place it on the table. Light 3 candles and place them around the glass. First peel the onion and cut it in half. Hide one part in the refrigerator and throw the second into water. Sit at the table and read the words of the conspiracy:
“Now I am my own mother, the one who gave birth to my beloved. So that there were no barriers between us, calm reigned and everything went well. I attract the forces of goodness and love to the hearth; an envious enemy will not penetrate there. Let us get rid of anger and hatred, and get rid of hostility! I have prepared a delicious pie, as soon as you taste just one piece, you will love me and call me your beloved daughter-in-law. From now on and forever you will be like a legitimate mother to me. Candles will help me in the twilight, a spell for love, sending it to you. Amen".
The words of the spell must be repeated 7 times, the glass with the onion must be left on the window for 7 days. Then hide the onion and water in a deserted place. After some time, the magic should work, the mother-in-law can ask for forgiveness, if this does not happen, then the ritual must be repeated 7 times every 7 days.
Mother-in-law got it! She comes to our house uninvited and behaves like a queen!
How to teach your mother-in-law not to come to visit without an invitation?
When I read such pleas for help before, I didn’t think that the problem was so acute. Well, it would seem, well, grandma came to see her son or daughter, and babysitting her grandchildren is a sacred thing. How can anyone not like this?
And now, when I myself find myself in the epicenter of attention of my type of relative, I don’t know how to get rid of her.
She's already fed up with me and my husband, her son.
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For the first five years of our marriage, she didn’t come to us much. She naturally mourned at our wedding
– She didn’t like me.
Then, when we initially lived in their apartment with my father-in-law, she forced us to move out
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I’ve heard so many epithets from her... “Slob” and “dirty” are still the cutest.
Well, I cried and calmed down. Still, we decided to move with my husband to a rented apartment.
We moved out. For a long time she did not touch us at all. I only called my husband, we saw each other only on holidays and for a maximum of an hour or two. In general, it was calm and good.
But all good things come to an end someday.
The fact is that my husband has a sister who withstood their mother’s unhealthy interest
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It was to her that my mother-in-law went to her for many years as if it were her home
. At first it was a necessity: it was necessary to pick up my grandson from kindergarten sometimes, because the grandmother had the keys to her daughter’s apartment.
But over time, her attention and unceremoniousness became so much that her daughter could not stand it and took the keys.
As she told my husband and me, that story was put to rest by a story that happened one weekday. The daughter, the owner of her apartment (which she bought with her own money!) was either on vacation, or took sick leave and, accordingly, did not go to work. At about ten o'clock in the morning, someone at her door began to jingle the keys, then turn the lock and oops... and the door was locked from the inside. The surprised housewife looked through the peephole - mom. She opened the door and she indignantly said, instead of “hello”: “What are you doing at home?”
The daughter was not taken aback and answered:
“I live here
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Mom was a little taken aback, but found the strength to mumble: “I wanted to watch TV with you in peace...”. For a moment: the fathers-in-law have televisions in three rooms, and the two of them live in a three-room apartment.
Soon, the husband’s sister took the keys to her house from her mother under some pretext. She was offended, but not for long.
Now she began to simply come to visit them without warning, when, according to her calculations, someone should be at home. If I came across a closed door, I was indignant and offended. But until next time. No requests to warn her about her visit had any effect on her.
And now the husband’s sister, apparently, had completely had enough of her mother’s behavior, and they quarreled. Now she doesn't visit them at all.
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But she started coming to us. So far, under plausible pretexts: to bring freshly baked cupcakes, to bring fish from fishing, I knitted socks for my son, otherwise there is no heating yet... But the mother-in-law forgets about the reason for Vita after two minutes and begins to demand attention to herself with a royal look.
- Why won’t you even offer me tea? Why don’t you have anything for tea? Do I need to teach you how to bake simple cookies?
She also likes to walk around the perimeter of our apartment, carefully examining every corner, every detail and making comments...
Apparently, it is vital for her to teach someone, to strain someone with her presence.
How to put your mother-in-law in her place if she is a manipulator and selfish
Manipulators operate according to the following scheme: they instill a sense of guilt in the “victim” and easily pull the strings. To the question of how to resist and defend yourself, there is only one answer: never be fooled! Even if she makes scandals, do not give up your plans and desires to please her.
If the influence is directed at the spouse, it is necessary to show him the real motives of the mother and teach him to fight manipulation.
The best tactic in dealing with an egoist is a mirror response. The egoist is only interested in his own desires. He doesn't care about those around him. Do the same with him.
